Thursday, May 3, 2012

Things I Don't See in My PNW Neighborhood

In May 1986, my husband graduated from college
the same weekend we had our first baby.

The Lord led us to Wichita, KS, to teach at a Christian school.
We put down roots so deeply, we still count it as our spiritual home.
The Christians we fellowshipped with greatly impacted our lives.
We left with four children a solid foundation.

We've been gone 18 years,
so long I forgot what the state was like,
especially if you live out in the country.

My recent trip back to Kansas brought it all back to me.

(When I travel  I like to compare my old homes to my new home.
I previously blogged about the Midwest and Hawaii.)

 See that white trail behind the school bus? 
That's dust.  Big, huge clouds of dust.
It follows you like a bad habit,
leaving even your teeth and dashboards gritty.

I saw armadillo roadkill.
Another night, an opossum tip-toed across the road in front of us.
Instead of turtles in aquariums and in fancy restaurants,
 they have turtles on the road.

It was a good thing my sister warned me that if I heard a woman scream
"Help me!  Help me!" 
I shouldn't be alarmed.
I guess peacocks have a Hitchcock vocabulary.
The donkeys across the road occasionally harmonized
for an interesting lullaby.


In the PNW, we rarely have bugs in our houses.
We rarely have bugs outside our houses.

And when a person from the PNW visits people in KS
and never remembers to close the screen doors,
they end up having bugs outside their houses
inside their houses.

"Who left the screen door open?"
That would be me.
"Who didn't shut the screen door?"
That would be me.
They totally freak me out.
They hover in a holding pattern around outside lights,
then kamikaze into your hair when you try to enter your home.

Of course,  in the PNW we have spiders big enough to carry off our firstborn,
but that's another blog...

This is a very, very loved dawg.
Ya', that's how ya'll say it in Kansas.
But, is it really a dog,
as they would call it in Seattle,
if it hasn't been had its toenails painted or eaten an organic dog treat?
She's never been to a doggie park, either.
(Is this OK, or should I report them?)

Do you see what I see?
The gun?
The deer mount?
Out in a public place?

Notice this menu.
No sushi.
Nothing free range.
Nothing offered for our culinary delight after it experienced a  "low stress kill."
No kiddin', I actually heard that line in a PNW restaurant once.
I pretended I was coughing to cover my spasmodic laughing into the
organically dry-cleaned linen napkin.

This here is a hedgeapple.
In season they are bright green, like a tennis ball.
Only, don't kick one when you first move to Kansas,
it's like kicking a bowling ball.
Ya', I dun did that once.

We have some littering in  our area, but not much,
thanks to high fines and years of having a toll-free tattling reporting number.

The Quick Trip sign brings back memories of chips and pop,
snacks often ingested after buying gas.
One time we stopped for chips and pop on the way to the hospital.
My son was almost born in a parking lot much like this.

Oh, like the gas price?  I paid $4.19 two days before this.

Ya' don't be seein' this in my big ol' neighborhood either,
my little sistah, LAHRIE. 
She followed us down to KS, then ended up staying.
We called her LORRIE growing up,
but ya'll know how it goes when yuh marry a SUTHERNER.
Kansas is southern to someone from North Dakota,
by the way.

She's crazy, she eats Beans 'n Greens,
she argues with me about who prettiest and smartest,
and can out belch me and out-cook me,

but, she's one of the things
 I miss the most about Kansas.

There's no one like her in my PNW neighborhood.

I love you, little sis!


  1. Thanks for the smiles.
    Nice to view Kansas through your eyes.
    You and your sister look a lot alike - both of you, very pretty!

    1. Aw, thanks, sweetie. Of course, she thinks she's prettier....:)

  2. Sweet enough to cry over. (And I did.) I've never been to Kansas, but I miss it too!

    1. Yea, we lived there during those years when we were both newlyweds and always had a new baby and no money to travel. Maybe you and Lee need to go visit....


    I am pretty sure I could not live in the PNW.
    I am pretty sure I could live in Kansas, but hold off the moths and tornadoes.

    1. You could live here, in fact, you could live next door to me, but I know you'd miss your awesome sisters.

  4. took me a minute to figure out PNW. Because I'm a dork.

    And Kansas is NOT the South. It is midwestern. But they do have an accent. If you don't like Kansas litter, don't come to Oklahoma. We have giant fines too, but with the ridiculous wind, trash tends to blow away easily. The wind is why I LOATHE plastic grocery bags. If you drive up and down the Oklahoma, Texas, Kansas roadways there are white plastic sacks all over the fence lines. And it is due to the stupid wind...

    By the way: I love the sight of a tail dust on a dirt road.

    1. I just found out THIS YEAR that KS is NOT considered the South. I guess because it was so far south from where we grew up, we considered it south. Now,to clarify we call ND the UPPER midwest and KS can be midwest.

      Growing up in the country in ND, the dusty trail was how we knew company was coming. For years there was a large black trash bag stuck to the barbed wire fence at our turn-off and it looked like a teradachtyl. :)

  5. I get to go see my sisters in July! I can't wait, I miss them so much! It has been 10 months and that is to long for me. Where I grew up in Idaho is very high desert, and sound a lot like Kansas. Kansas always reminds me of my Mommy because she LOVES the Wizard of OZ. I was driving my bus route today for church, and I saw your church! It made me think of you and miss our visits ;(. Hope you all are doing well. Maybe we can squeeze each other in some time this summer?

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