When A List Isn't Enough...

I like lists.

No, I love lists.

I love writing them out.

I love checking things off.

I love rewriting the lists when they begin

to look too sloppy to be inspiring.

Most of the time,  a list works for organizing my life.

Sometimes,  I use several lists on a clipboard~

~like ~

Things To Do

Things To Buy

Things To Cook

Things To Pack

Preparing for a a Graduation Open House

sent me way past the usefulness of

Clipboard With Lists.

I went for the Big Gun I named ~

~Command Central~

.

Using a huge tray from IKEA,

I first wrote out days of the week on Post-It notes

and stuck them across the top.

You can see why the pressure was building,

I only had five days left,

and many, many, many things to do.

Each task to complete or item to buy

was written down and placed under the column of the day

I thought it should be done.

The white notes were mini-lists,

like all that needed to be cleaned in the dining room

and other things I don't remember,

and the print is too small on the picture to read.

Double-click on pic if you care what I was doing.

When a chore was completed, it was crossed off

and labeled with the name of the hero that completed the task.

At the end of the day, 

uncompleted tasks were moved over to the next column.

By the final day, only a few things had to be eliminated

from the list because we couldn't get them done.

Because the whole list was in view for the entire family,

everybody knew what needed to be done

and what they were capable of doing.

It also kept me from nagging and brought peace in the house.

Even my Type B "I'll-Do-It-Tomorrow" hubby

enjoyed completing a few tasks and  crossing them off

the first day

Command Central was established.

 I loved involving the whole family

in preparing for a special occasion,

and having a list that was flexible.

I think my family loved it because it kept me from

nagging...

...but they can't admit that in public,

because they don't blog.

So, I'll say it for them.

Anything that relieves stress for Mommy

is a success in our house.

What organizational victories have you had

while planning special events for your family this summer?

What do YOU have TO DO?

A monumentous occasion

has to be proclaimed.

I crossed off everything on my

To Do List.

OK,

I have four more lists I'm working on,

but this one is done.

It's destined for the recycle bin,

but I had to let it sit on my desk for another day

to enjoy every moment of that satisfaction.

There's nothing like the feeling

of boldly drawing my pen mark

through that very last item.

There was no fanfare in the house,

the kids didn't cheer me on,

my husband didn't offer to frame the list.

Self-satisfaction was enough reward.

As I thought about that feeling,

I wondered what the Bible had listed for me

to do.

1 Thessalonians 4:11

And that ye study to be quiet,

and to do your own business,

and to work with your own hands,

 

Hebrews 10:9

Then said he I come to do thy will, O God.

Hebrews 13:16

But to do good and to communicate forget not:

for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.

 

James 4:17

Therefore to him that knoweth to do good,

and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

 

How can we manage to do our own business,

do His will and do good?

Only because the Lord Jesus has  to do list, too.

Ephesians 3:20

Now unto him that is able

to do

exceeding

 abundantly

above all

that we ask or think,

 according to the power

that worketh in us,

 

We need His help

for everything on our

to do lists,

the ones we write,

and the Holy One He wrote.

 

Then, when we stand before Him,

and give an account

for our service on earth,

He will notice those things we've accomplished

through Him that is able...

 

...and we will hear,

"Well done, thou good and faithful servant."

His satisfaction will be reward enough.

 

So, I just wanna' make sure,

I get a lot of things,

crossed off on

His to do list.

Lists, Lists and More Lists

Another Monday.

Another week stretching out with too many things demanding my attention.  It always makes me wonder how I accomplish anything during the school year with homeschooling daily breathing down my neck.

My first order of business will be to find and compile all my To Do Lists from the past week in my Summer Binder and on my computer. I am getting a lot done, but I am not always efficient - YET.

I jotted one list  down on on a small pad of paper in my Bible,  

three lists on sheets of lined paper

 on a clipboard next to my bed,

five pages on my desk

 that I scribbled on when  at my computer,

and another list for those urgent things

that popped into my head first thing this  morning.

Oh yea, then there is the task box in my Outlook.

See all the little red squares on the bottom right of the screen?

Yea, those things are DONE, baby.

My plan for organizing the lists:

Long-term lists -  These items are high-faluting goals, like painting rooms, sewing curtains, fixing things, ordering books, things that need or should be done in the next six months, but there isn't any urgency.

They can be written out according to rooms and subjects, just beautiful inspirational lists of aspirations.

If I need to yearly track the list and accomplishments, like when planning Daily Vacation Bible School, I love to use OneNote, my favorite Microsoft product of all time.

If I just want to cross off the things and throw the lists away, I write them on paper.  My summer binder  will also include lists  for planning  our family vacation and our trip to Bible Camp.   In turn, these are divided into To Do, To Pack and To Buy segments. 

Weekly lists -  Overall view of weekly obligations.   I use my Outlook Calendar (see pic above) program faithfully, listing all baseball in blue, appointments in orange, company in teal and traveling in lavender, etc.  The calendars can also be printed and posted on fridge or in binder if I need to make it available to everyone.

Daily lists- Just so I remember to do little things and keep priorities straight.  Monday is laundry day, that goes without saying, so I don't even write it down, unless I have that undeniable urge to write it down just to cross it off. As I read my Bible in the morning and have those two cups of coffee, I am always prompted about little needs, like

-Does Jon need another teeth cleaning?

-Oh, I need to sent a card to my niece.

Sometimes I put so many things on a daily list, it automatically becomes a weekly list. That's OK!

Don't Do List - I am giving myself permission to NOT tackle anything for homeschool this week. 


Our summer schedule is simple -
Morning - work
Afternoon - play

I usually get up much earlier than the kids because I cherish those golden silent moments and the ability to sometimes work on a project alone.  After they obey the Morning Rule - "get up, get dressed, make your bed" -they eat and we decide what needs to be conquered.  They usually aren't allowed to clean their rooms during this time, that is expected to be done.  Mornings are Mommy Projects, extra things I need help with and skills that I am teaching them.

Lists should be a tool, not a torture.  We are not a slave to them. There are days I give myself permission to not even look at my lists, or have to cross anything off.  Somedays, I do a bunch of stuff that isn't even on the list, and wasn't ever going to be on the list.

I still want to be led by the Lord in how I spend my time and energy.  According to Proverbs 16, we plan,  but the Lord guides. I am embarrassed to say that sometimes I forget to pray over my lists. 

The lists are NOT to hang a noose around my neck, they are just to keep me from forgetting things that need to be done and keep me from wasting time. 

Plus, when they are on the counter, the kids might even go see what "needs to be crossed off" before we can go play.


I am hearing the sounds of summer, laugher and lawnmowing, and the sun is peeking through my curtains.

I'm gunna throw in a load of laundry, stack my lists on the Summer binder in the kitchen and grab another cup of coffee.

'Cuz, I have another Monday to face.

*****

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Who Cut The...?

About a month ago, we were gearing up for the heavy rains that were coming.  Soon coming.  On their way that night, coming. I had several projects underway that evening, and was feeling a bit overwhelmed.

To be truthful, overwhelmingly overwhelmed.

To top it all off, I remembered I hadn't harvested my lavendar yet.

Without prompting, my dear hubby volunteered to go cut it down for me.

It was so terribly romantic for a manly man to volunteer to do a girly girl thing.

 I was just in awe.

 But, a bit worried. 

I didn't want to micro-manage,

 nor did I want to belittle his offering to do a gardening chore for me.

Wives can certainly take the joy out of a hubby's service

by nagging and fussing

...even if they ARE doing it wrong.

After all, his intent was to be a help and to show his love for me.

After internally debating for several moments, I walked into the front yard, just in time

to resuce my purple asters.

I laughed enough to not be a nag, but not enough to be humiliating,

remembered to thank him, and pointed him towards the correct plants.

He was a bit surprised he was wrong.

 After all, the asters are the COLOR lavendar,

 the lavendar plant is more gray. 

Good point.

He cut and chopped and wacked and filled several cakepans full. 

I know it is more romantic looking to tie them in bundles and hang them from the ceiling,

but I have a huge reality pill to swallow each day.

Settling for cut and in cake pans in the garage was good enough for me.

That's my Type A person learning to be a Type B person.

As I had time, I would wander into the garage  to separate the buds from the stock. 

The smell greets me every time I go out to the freezer, the workbench or the craft area.

My husband will have the only lavendar scented tools in the neighborhood.

Beka stepped into the project as satchet filler. She loves giving them away as gifts.

As Beka likes to say often, "We have fun together, don't we Mom?"

What started as a stress point on my never-ending-always-growing

TO DO LIST,

became a memorable family project.

My husband may have lavendar scented tools,

but I have love scented lavendar.